PSHE · Year 4

Friendships Under Pressure

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🗂️ Sort each behaviour into Healthy Friendship or Unhealthy Friendship. Think carefully — some might surprise you!

  • Taking turns to choose the game

  • Keeping each other's secrets safe

  • Saying sorry when you have upset someone

  • Leaving someone out to punish them

  • Calling someone names as a joke

  • Pressuring a friend to break the rules

  • Listening when a friend feels sad

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🧩 Put these steps for repairing a friendship in the correct order, from the very first thing to do to the final step.

  1. Agree together on what to do differently next time
  2. Listen to your friend's point of view without interrupting
  3. Use an I-statement to explain how you felt
  4. Choose a quiet moment to talk to your friend
  5. Notice you feel upset and take a breath to calm down

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SituationAssertive Response to Try
Friends dare you to take something that is not yoursNo thanks, that is not something I want to do.
Someone pressures you to leave another child outI do not want to do that — everyone can play.
A friend keeps pushing after you already said noI said no and I mean it. A real friend will respect that.
You feel unsure and need time to thinkI need to think about it — I will let you know.
Handy phrases to use when you need to say no assertively — meaning firmly but still kindly

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🃏 Test yourself! Read the front of each card, then flip it to check the answer.

Tap each card to see the answer.

Quiz time! 📝

Friendships Under Pressure — Check Your Learning!

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